Which One of You is the Mother? is a best-selling book by Sean Michael O’Donnell. It is available on Amazon Kindle and paperback.
After fifteen years of up-all-night gay disco dance parties, Sean O’Donnell and his longtime partner Todd decided to trade in their leather chaps for mom jeans and start a family. In August 2012 the not-so ambiguously gay duo walked into a Pittsburgh-based adoption agency and said, “We’d like a child, please.” For the next several months they attended parenting classes, subjected themselves to probing FBI background checks, and completed enough paperwork to reforest the whole of the Amazon River basin. Despite lacking a magical baby-making vagina the pair successfully made omelets without eggs when in July 2013 they flew to Oregon to meet their seven-year-old son for the first time. No longer Sean and Todd they would now be forever known as Dad and Papa to the observant boy (“So that’s how you sleep.”) with a million questions (“Do you have a girlfriend?”, “Where do babies come from?”, “What’s gay?”) No sooner had they settled into their new roles when the stork returned the following year, delivering another boy who quickly proved that five-year-olds were basically talking babies who could use the toilet. Which One of You is the Mother? is the story of how two gay guys finally met the two kids who were always meant to be their sons. This is a book that celebrates a different kind of family who just happens to be like every other family on the block. Only gayer. And funnier.
Read all about the book that has straight and gay parents screaming, “5 stars! A must-read!”
Raising Children Queerly: Four Books for Summer Reading – Huffington Post 7/19/16
28 of the Best Parenting Books for 2016 – The Baby Spot 12/31/15
10 Things I Hate Being Asked as a Gay Adoptive Parent – America Adopts 9/2/15
Weird Reaction to Gay Dads, Funny & Insightful Memoir – The New Family 8/31/15
1000 Families Project – The New Family 8/31/15
Gay Dad Responds to the Question: Which One of You is the Mother? – Gay Star News 8/30/15
Be Careful What you Google – VillageQ 8/28/15
Which One of You is the Mother? (Review) – The Baby spot 8/25/15
Book Spotlight – Hello Chick Lit 8/24/15
The Day a Dad First Met his Son – The Good Men Project 8/20/15
Which One of You is the Mother? (Editor’s Pick) – Proud Parenting 8/1315
5 Star Review – A Cheeky Book Addicts Thoughts 7/29/15